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Starting A New Relationship

Why is it that starting a new relationship makes some people nervous? I started a new relationship with a guy I met a month ago. Things are moving along smoothly, we go on nice dates, have good conversation, and we seem to hit it off very well. At first I was nervous dating him because I have not dated in a while, but now I feel more comfortable around him. I think I am ready for a relationship in this phase of my recovery, I am taking my medication regularly and I starting to do more activities.

Meeting new people was one of my goals for recovery. I do not have many friends now but I hope to get a few in the near future. Another one of my goals for recovery is decribed in my post, "Closer to Recovery," I discuss plans to start school in the spring, so far the application process is going well.
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Wandering Coyote said…
Oh, this is so nice and heartening to hear! I'm very happy for you!
November 11, 2008 at 2:17 PM
Laura said…
That's wonderful news!
November 11, 2008 at 5:04 PM
HektikLyfe said…
One step at a time. Good luck! Us guys can be a little difficult. ;)
November 11, 2008 at 5:22 PM
HektikLyfe said…
I wouldn't take you normally because of the context of your blogs but you have recently given it a more personal touch so I have.

You've been tagged.
November 13, 2008 at 2:04 PM
Priscilla said…
Sounds good. I wish you the best in your new relationship.
November 18, 2008 at 9:13 PM
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